Respect all elderly people and treat them with dignity

The second rule of the Tang Soo Do code is, “Respect all elderly people and treat them with dignity.” Let’s review the significance of this rule and how it contributes to the holistic development of Tang Soo Do practitioners.

Respect as a Foundation:

This rule emphasizes the importance of respecting and treating elderly individuals with dignity. This principle is deeply rooted in Eastern philosophy, reflecting the values of Confucianism, which places a high regard for the wisdom and experience that come with age. By instilling this respect for elders, Tang Soo Do aims to create a community of practitioners who not only excel in physical techniques but also demonstrate exemplary moral conduct.

Understanding Dignity:

The term “dignity” encompasses more than mere politeness. It implies recognizing the intrinsic worth of each individual, regardless of age, and acknowledging their contributions to society. In Tang Soo Do, treating elders, and higher ranking practitioners, with dignity involves understanding and appreciating the knowledge they possess, the experiences they’ve gained, and the wisdom they can impart. 

Practical Applications:

Respecting and treating elders with dignity extends beyond the dojang. Tang Soo Do practitioners are encouraged to apply these principles in their daily lives. This might involve assisting elderly individuals in various ways, such as offering a helping hand, showing patience, or simply being attentive and compassionate. Through these actions, Tang Soo Do practitioners contribute positively to their communities, fostering a sense of unity and support.

Teaching Humility:

The second rule of Tang Soo Do’s Code also serves as a lesson in humility. In a world that often values youth and vitality, recognizing the importance of the elderly teaches practitioners to appreciate the cyclical nature of life. By humbly acknowledging the contributions of those who came before, Tang Soo Do students develop a deeper understanding of themselves and their origins.

Building a Community of Respect:

As Tang Soo Do practitioners progress in their training, they become not only skilled martial artists but also ambassadors of respect within their communities. By embodying the principles of the second rule, they contribute to the creation of a supportive and harmonious environment, where individuals of all ages are valued and acknowledged.

Conclusion:

The second rule of the Code of Tang Soo Do, emphasizing respect for elderly individuals and treating them with dignity, is a testament to the martial art’s commitment to holistic development. By instilling values beyond physical techniques, Tang Soo Do not only produces skilled fighters but also individuals who contribute positively to their communities, fostering a culture of respect, humility, and unity. As practitioners internalize this rule, they carry its essence beyond the dojang, creating a ripple effect that extends far beyond the boundaries of the martial art itself.

In Loving Memory

Dear Students and Friends,

It is with deep sorrow that we announce the passing of Grandmaster Dr. Michael Cox on October 12, 2023. Dr. Cox dedicated his life to the art of Tang Soo Do, and his influence extended far beyond the dojang. His legacy will forever resonate within our hearts, and we invite you to join us in celebrating his remarkable life.

Memorial and Celebration of Life

Date:    October 21, 2023
Time:    2:00 PM
Location
: Orion Martial Arts
  635 N. Twin Oaks Valley Rd #1
  San Marcos, CA 92069

Please RSVP to Grandmaster Laura Gomez 760-445-9731

We will come together to honor and remember the man who played an integral role in shaping our Tang Soo Do community. During this memorial and celebration of life, we will share stories, memories, and pay our respects to a martial arts icon.

Grandmaster Dr. Michael Cox was not only a dedicated instructor but also a mentor, a leader, and a source of inspiration to many. His contributions to the world of Tang Soo Do were immeasurable, and his impact on countless lives is a testament to his unwavering commitment.

All are welcome to join us in commemorating Grandmaster Dr. Michael Cox and the profound impact he had on our martial arts community. Your support and presence during this time will be greatly appreciated.

To R.S.V.P. or to share your condolences, please contact Grandmaster Laura Gomez at 760-445-9731.

Let us come together as a community to remember and celebrate the life of a remarkable martial artist and mentor, Grandmaster Dr. Michael Cox.

Grandmaster Dr. Michael Cox & Grandmaster Laura Gomez,

Love and Respect Your Parents.

The first rule of the traditional Code of Tang Soo Do is “Love and respect your parents.” But, what does it really mean to love and respect your parents?

According to the Oxford Dictionary, the most popular definition of love is “an intense feeling of deep affection” (2019). And while this is a reasonably accurate definition, Pastor Wintley Phipps explained it best when he said “Love is when you choose to be at your best when the other person is not at their best. Love is when what you want is never important. But what the other person needs and wants is always paramount.”(Oprah Interviews Wintley Phipps, Nov 22, 2015). True love is a gift of the heart, simultaneously given and received.

Similarly, respect is best defined as a both a noun and a verb; “a feeling of deep admiration for someone or something elicited by their abilities, qualities, or achievements,” and “due regard for the feelings, wishes, rights, or traditions of others” (Oxford Dictionary, 2019). Respect is not granted carelessly, it is earned. Therefore, respect is a gift of the mind, also simultaneously given and received.

The most common definition of parent is simply the mother and the father of a child. However, parent is legally defined as, “an individual who has custody, guardianship or access rights in regards to a child …” (duhaime.org). In most legal jurisdictions the term parent includes individuals who cause a child to be born through a surrogate mother; those who adopt a child, those who have care or control of a child through a foster care arrangement; and those who, though being of a same-sex union, have the care or custody of a child, or some combination of the above.

So, what does it mean to love and respect your parents? The ones who support you, love you, and believe in you even when you are not your best. Those who raised you, who put your needs before their own, and without whom you would not be who you are. Simply put, showing love and respect to your parents is cherishing their influence and existence in your life, honoring their feelings, wishes, rights, and traditions, and choosing to be at your best even when they are not present.

Written by Bu Sabom J. Hawley on Mother’s Day in honor of the best mom ever, yours!

Rumor has it

Yes, it’s true; Scorpius Martial Arts is moving and we’re super excited about it!

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Beginning March 5th, 2019 Scorpius Martial Arts will hold classes for all ages & abilities at the California Center for the Arts, Escondido, on Tuesdays, Thursdays & Saturdays.

For more information, please contact Scorpius Martial Arts.